Aquarius and Aquarius Compatibility

Aquarius and Aquarius in love, sex, friendship and marriage

Aquarius and Aquarius compatibility by birth date

The score above reads your Suns alone. Two birth dates give a Full chart score across both whole charts, with no birth time and no account needed. Simple shows the Sign score for any two signs.

Our calculation service uses Lx Ephemeris, built on NASA JPL's DE440. Read about the data and precision. The historical date tables below use a separate PyEphem calculation.

What happens when two open-minded people won't budge?

It's the fourth week of the same argument. One of you wants to sell the car and do everything by bike and train. The other says that's easy to say when your mother doesn't live two hours away by road. Both of you have sent the other articles. Both have said 'I'm completely open to it' and meant it. On Sunday it comes up again while you're loading the dishwasher, and you each make the same points, a little louder.

Two Aquarians each think of themselves as the flexible one, which is why neither notices who's stuck. You both say you're open to changing your mind, and neither has said what would actually change it.

Settle arguments by switching sides first

When the same disagreement comes back a third time, stop and swap. Each of you argues the other's position, out loud, as well as you can. Then:

• Keep going until the person whose view it is says 'yes, that's it'. Let them correct what you missed, then try again.
• Don't slip your own case in while you're making theirs. No 'which is obviously wrong, but'.
• Nobody decides until both of you have had your view said back correctly.
• Before you decide, each names one point the other made that's genuinely good.

Why switching sides works for two Aquarians

Two Aquarians respect a good argument, and this turns fairness into the contest. Neither of you wants to be the one who couldn't state the other side well. Making their case is harder than hearing it, so keep explaining their position until they agree you've understood it. Then ask which of their concerns you can solve together, and separate what you already agree on from the choice that's still open.

Use it on the repeat arguments, and only those. A first disagreement is just a conversation, and two Aquarians are good at those. If you'd like a sense of how the air signs argue in general, the air signs guide covers it.

Do two Aquarians clash?

Yes, though rarely loudly. Two Aquarians clash the way two experts do: politely, at length, and without moving. Each is sure they're the reasonable one, so the argument slowly stops being about the car and starts being about who's more open-minded. That's the moment to switch sides.

Ptolemy lists Aquarius among the solid signs, the ones in which the season that began in the sign before is felt more fully, so that its cold or heat will 'touch us more firmly' (Tetrabiblos I.11). Two fixed signs can keep defending their first positions long after the practical question has changed, and a couple like that needs a way out of a standoff more than it needs fewer opinions.

Can two Aquarians stay romantic?

Yes, if you say the soft things out loud. Love and sex both rate good, below the friendship, and the drift runs toward being comrades. The usual moment is small: one of you wants a hug after a bad day and gets a careful analysis of the day instead. Ask for the hug by name. Another Aquarius won't be put off by a direct request, and may be relieved to get one. Say a feeling before you've worked out what it means, too.

In our 1950–2005 date sample (see the Venus table below), two Aquarius dates share a Venus sign less often than two dates of any other same sign. So the shared Sun says little about how each of you likes affection: find each of your Venus signs, and if one of you has it in the Sun's sign, read how a Venus in Aquarius shows it cares.

The January and February Aquarius split

It doesn't change the score. It can change how you argue. On the 640 January Aquarius dates in our sample, Mercury was in Capricorn more often than in Aquarius, 339 times to 301, and never in Pisces. Venus was never in Aries on a January Aquarius date; on the 1,016 February dates it was there 184 times.

So a January Aquarius more often argues in Mercury in Capricorn's practical terms: what it costs and who's responsible. A February Aquarius can have Mercury in Pisces and argue from a feeling, or Mercury in Aquarius and argue from a principle. If your standoffs sound like two languages, check both Mercury signs from your birth dates.

Should two Aquarians marry?

Yes, once you've agreed how a standoff ends. Marriage is the lowest of your five scores, still good, because two fixed signs make big choices slowly and take longer still to change one. Settle the method before the first big one: where to live, whether to have children, whose job moves. Same-sex couples read the same way.

Two Aquarians often keep separate friends and separate projects, and that works as long as it was chosen rather than drifted into. On Aquarius's ranked list of matches, a second Aquarius comes fifth, below the other air signs and the two fire sextiles.

Two Aquarians as parents, siblings, friends and coworkers

Two Aquarius parents tend to run a house where every rule comes with a reason. Aquarius siblings argue for years and stay close, and between relatives the Moon signs say as much as the Suns. As friends, agree how much contact each of you expects when life gets busy. Coworkers do well once each decision has one owner.

Aquarius has two rulers, and the Aquarius sign guide explains Saturn and Uranus. For the rest of both charts, find each Moon and rising sign in a free birth chart, since a birth time adds the rising sign, then compare where each chart's Saturn lands in the other. In synastry, astrologers read Saturn contacts for commitment, duty and limits.

Switching sides over the car

Back to the dishwasher. The one who wants to sell the car argues the other's case: the visits are two hours by road, the train stops forty minutes short, and without the car the visits would get rarer, which neither of them wants. The other says 'yes, that's it.' Then the swap: the car sits in the lot six days a week, costs money every month, and you both say you care about this.

Said back by each other, both cases sound reasonable, and the question narrows to money and miles. Each names the other's best point first: the visits, and the six days in the lot. Then they price the rentals, check the train times and work out how often they'd really visit. Now there's an actual plan to set against keeping the car, and both of them helped write it.

Aquarius and Aquarius in our 1950–2005 date sample

These estimates pair two dates drawn independently from the 1950–2005 sample, with equal weight for every date within each Sun sign. They show how often each Venus and Mercury combination turns up, which is why two real people with these Sun signs can score differently.

Most common Venus pairings in this model: Capricorn with Aquarius (15.3%), Capricorn with Pisces (14.7%), Aquarius with Pisces (12.6%). Reversed Venus pairings are combined because both Sun signs are the same. Mars can occupy any sign with either Sun sign. The most frequent Mars signs on sampled Aquarius dates are Sagittarius (12.8%), Pisces (12.3%), Aries (11.7%), Scorpio (10.9%).

The sample covers 20,454 dates from January 1, 1950, through December 31, 2005, with Sun, Mercury and Venus signs taken at noon UTC. Two Aquarius dates are paired independently, so the figures count combinations of dates, not couples.

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